Rawley starts his first official puppy training class a week from Saturday, but that doesn't mean I haven't been training him.
Puppies are being "trained" from the day they join your family. It's entirely your decision what they learn during that time. In my decades of raising puppies, from birth or from the day I bring them home, I've always taken control of the process from the start.
So when the trainer came to my house for his in-home puppy evaluation, she pretty much made my day by cutting the cost of the program since it was clear to her that I didn't need help with the usual "puppy management" stuff like destructiveness, house-training and "puppy play biting."
I give full credit for the last to Rawley's breeder, Paula Pascoe; he arrived with excellent bite inhibition, and I've just reinforced that with the occasional whimper when his sharp baby teeth touch my skin in play.
But like any puppy, he considers everything a potential toy and every surface a potential toilet. So my solution?
Ex-pens, paying attention, and being proactive.
The only time Rawley is loose in the house right now is when I'm interacting with him. That means following him from room to room, making sure he doesn't potty or get into anything he shouldn't. It means that if I see the slightest hint he's going to squat or chew, I hustle him outside or divert him with a chew toy.
Of course, it also means he's curled up in my lap while I watch television -- cuddle time is quality time.
If I can't actively supervise him, however, he's in one of his ex-pens. I have one set up in the living room, one in the bedroom (pictured) and one in my office. It has plastic-backed pads on the bottom, covered with blankets, surrounded by a four-foot wire fence (which Deerhound owners commonly use to bring our dogs to shows or field trials). It's full of toys, and has a bucket clipped to the wire so it won't tip over.
This way, Rawley's always with me, always part of the family, but he's also safe -- and so are my carpets and furnishings.
And so is Kyrie, my 11-year-old Borzoi, who really doesn't need to be irritated by a free-range puppy while she's trying to sleep.
Now, this program only works because I'm fortunate enough to work out of a home office, and because I have a very flexible schedule most of the time. If Rawley indicates he needs to potty, I can hustle him out at the first whine. This is great, because it reinforces the house-training process: Always go outside. Yes, he's had a couple of accidents in his pen, but every time it was because I wasn't quite quick enough.
And if Rawley's feeling rowdy, I don't just tell him to be quiet. I wrap up what I'm working on as quickly as possible, leash him up, and hit the park.
This puppy-rearing system has the advantage of quickly teaching him the ropes, and creating a tight bond between puppy and owner.
However, as part of Rawley's socialization process, I'm also making sure he knows that being without me, or even entirely alone, isn't a bad thing. I started leaving him for short intervals. I don't say goodbye, I don't make a big deal of saying hi when I get back, and I never re-enter the house if he happens to be whining or crying. (Although Kyrie did once look at me like I was crazy as we stood on the front porch, waiting for a moment of silence so we could go in after our walk.)
And a couple times a week, my trainer and dog walker extraordinaire, Courtney Guntner of San Francisco's The Whole Pet, takes the little guy to his puppy play group for a few hours.
If I didn't work at home, I'd probably do exactly what I already do, but either take Rawley with me to work, as I do now on Thursdays when I'm at the Maddie's Fund offices, or put him in doggy day care, as Gina did during Faith's puppy hellion days while she was still working her PR gig.
It's not really that hard as long as you plan well, but it does require a certain amount of toughness. I'm all over the puppy with love and hugs and play -- duh -- but I also let him know that this is how his life is, and that he has to go along with the program. In fact, I structure both our lives so he has no idea there's any other way to live.
Contrary to a few hand-wringing puppy buyers I've counseled over the years, this doesn't make the puppy feel bad. If you do your job right, it makes him feel confident and secure. Dogs like to know the program; it's how they're wired.
Now, Deerhounds tend to be tractable dogs, and Rawley is the most co-operative puppy I've ever raised. He's making it easy. But even those dogs *cough Lillie cough* who felt the program sucked benefited from it, and were quickly house-trained -- allowing them the very freedom they were craving.
So my advice to puppy moms and dads everywhere: Structure, routine, lots of love, play and attention, and stand tough about keeping the puppy on his schedule and in his pen or crate when he's not being supervised.
It doesn't mean your dog will be perfect any more than you are, but it does mean he'll be comfortable with the routine of your shared life, and safe. It doesn't get much better than that.
Photos: Top: Rawley was napping on my lap when I slid him into my favorite chair and went for the camera. Bottom: Rawley's ex-pen at the foot of my bed.
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